MONEY TALKS

28-year-old banker making $150K worries starter house will soon be $1M

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Living Situation:

Own. Purchased last year. 30-year mortgage. Most houses for sale now aren’t going to sell because there’s a lack of motivation on both sides — the current owner doesn’t want to give up a good rate, and the buyer doesn’t want to pay an extensive amount.

Married, no kids, but we do plan on having children. 

After being in a house for 2 years, my advice would be do not rush anything. Buying a house is a lifestyle choice. It is shelter, a place to raise a family, etc. It is not strictly an ROI optimized investment.

Yes, houses can appreciate over time, but that should not be your priority. It is no fun being house poor.

Job and salary:

Treasury manager at a large bank. $130K base and a $20K bonus.

Salary journey:

  • Year 1 – $65K salary and $5K bonus (1st year out of college)
  • Year 2 – $75K salary and $5K bonus
  • Year 3 – $110K salary and $10K bonus (new job at new company)
  • Year 4 – $125K salary and $15K bonus (internal promotion)
  • Year 5 – $130K salary and $20K bonus (merit increase)

Work-life balance:

Very good. Mostly a 9-5 job with the rare night extending to 7pm.

3 days in office per week. 2 days from home. Hybrid is really, really nice.

I work out in mornings before work. Most nights, dinner at home with my wife, walk the dog afterwards and watch a show before bed.

Credit card:

Chase Sapphire Preferred! Points and perks are really good.

Budgeting:

Yes, but I’m pretty hands-off. I target saving $1K-$3K per month depending on big expenses like travel. I’m a natural saver.

Splurge:

Travel. My wife and I traveled to Italy via first-class plane tickets for our honeymoon.

Seeing different countries and cultures is a huge ROI.

Money hack:

  • Get a roommate in your 20s.
  • Shop at Aldi and meal prep.
  • Drive a crappy used car like my $5,000 Honda Accord.

Net worth:

$350K. Made up of $140K in retirement accounts, $100K in a brokerage account, $70K in home equity, and the rest in savings and alternative investments.

Portfolio:

50% QQQ (Nasdaq ETF), 40% IVV (S&P 500 ETF) and 10% bitcoin and personal stock picks. I’ve been lucky with a ton of market appreciation since I started investing in 2020.

My advice is to get to $100K in investable assets as soon as you can. Then let it compound.

Retirement:

I’d like to work a less intense job in my 40s, then retire at 50. If we’re blessed to have children, I want to prioritize being extremely present in their lives. I’d still want to do work that matters to me, just not a corporate job LOL.

Financial freedom:

My target is $5M. At a 4% withdrawal rate, that’s $200K.

Regret:

Not meal prepping earlier. It’s healthier and much cheaper.  

Rich in Charlotte:

$500K annual household income. Multiple vacations. Luxury car for the wife. Private school for kids. Home over $1M.

But I aspire to be wealthy, not rich. Rich is what you can spend per month. Wealth is what you have accumulated.

Financial goals:

  • Retiring my wife to be a stay-at-home mom when we have kids
  • $1M net worth, then $1M in investable assets
  • Become work optional

On your mind:

Inflation and the rising cost of living in Charlotte. Will a starter house cost $1M here within 10 years?

I worry about reaching the later stages of my life and not being able to afford things like a daughter’s wedding or kids’ education. I want to be able to provide for my family.

Knowledge:

I saw money come and go with my parents. I worked 2 jobs in college. I’m a natural saver. I’ve always had this feeling that I was behind financially. I still do to some degree.


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