34 year old non-profit executive making $130K tithes 10%

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Here’s a look at the finances of a 34 year old non-profit executive.

Living situation:

I own my condo. No kids or spouse. I bought it brand new at the end of 2018 for $205K. Mortgage is $1,000/mo and $225 HOA.

I bought it at the perfect time before it was a madhouse. I’d love to sell my place and make a killing, but with interest rates so high and limited inventory… wtf would I go?

Salary:

I make $130K plus a bonus. I was previously in consulting making a similar compensation but working 80 hours/week. Life is difficult with those hours.

At age 29, I left my career in consulting to pivot to a government job. It’s changed my professional and personal life for the better. Take risks!

Work/life balance:

I prioritize my faith and always go to church on Sunday. It’s my weekly re-set day. On Sundays, I find solace in taking care of my home and re-charge by cooking a great meal and reading a book. 

Debt:

Just my mortgage. I paid off my car in 2020 and recently purchased a new car with cash. Taking the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace Class ($99.99) really helped me to understand my budget.

Credit card:

I’ve gotten myself into trouble with credit cards, so I stick to using my debit card these days.

Budgeting:

I should do better! I tithe 10% of my income to my church and have money added to my savings account. Other than that I just try to have a nice cushion should something happen.

Best recurring expense:

I struggled with acne for years. I started going to Infinity MedSpa years ago and have a monthly custom facial with them ($119/mo)! I love supporting a small, woman-owned business and they’ve changed my skin completely.

Splurge:

I dress up for work most days. I love a statement piece to wear to work events and meetings. Tuckernuck dresses (mostly $140 – $300) are some of my favorites because they’re flattering and most travel so well. You can ride in the car, hop on a plane, or walk miles — and still look great!

Money hack:

Charlotte Meck Library card!! I LOVE to read. When I do my Sunday shopping at Target, I always stroll through the book aisle, jot down their book picks, then I reserve them for my kindle at the library and save money (and space on my bookshelves).

Charlotte restaurant:

Steak 48 is my favorite splurge. But ANY of Jim Noble’s restaurants are my go-to’s for out of town guests or family. I love his mission for serving our city, the way he utilizes local farmers, and every dish is 10/10 spectacular.

Investments:

I max out my 401K. When former employers didn’t have matching programs, I had a Roth IRA.

I suggest setting up your savings as an automatic withdrawal that you don’t see so you won’t miss it!

Retirement:

I’ve never thought about retirement much! I always thought I’d get married, have babies to raise, and spend my life doing that, like my mom. Those chapters haven’t unfolded yet and I love working. At this point I’m not sure that I would want to retire. I love being active and serving others!

What’s “rich” in Charlotte:

A home on Queens Road West! And anyone who goes to Five Guys at the mall and doesn’t immediately have financial anxiety at the checkout…

Financial goals:

  • Pay off my mortgage. I’ve owned my condo for 6 years and if I could pay it off by year 15 I’d feel incredibly accomplished.
  • Purchase another home and keep the condo as a rental property.
  • Become more generous! A few years ago we read The Blessed Life at church. I want to be known as a generous person. I believe it’s a wonderful legacy to give money away to those who need it and glorify God when you do.

On your mind:

Just how expensive everyday life is. And the teenage girls at SouthPark Mall with Sephora and Lululemon bags… what do your parents do for a living and how can we get rich like them??


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